Pam Farrel

Pam Farrel

Pam Farrel

Bill and Pam Farrel are relationship specialists. They are the co-founders and directors of Love-Wise and Farrel Communications, organizations that help today’s couples and families develop relational wisdom. Their passion is to help others learn how relationships really work.

The Farrels are international speakers and authors of more than 30 books, including their bestselling Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti (over 300,000 sold), Single Men Are Like Waffles, Single Women Are Like Spaghetti, Red-Hot Monogamy, The 10 Best Decisions a Couple Can Make, and The 10 Best Decisions a Parent Can Make. The Farrels’ books have been translated into over 16 languages and have sold more than a half million copies. Their work has been endorsed by Stormie Omartian, Steve Arterburn, Michelle McKinney Hammond, Florence Littauer, Carol Kent, Stuart and Jill Briscoe, and many other leaders in the Christian community.

Bill has served in numerous ministry roles and has experience as a senior pastor and youth pastor, and most recently, he helped revitalize the small group ministry at Shadow Mountain Community Church under the leadership of Dr. David Jeremiah. Pam has served as director of women’s ministry, a pastor’s wife, and a mentor. She is also the founder and president of Seasoned Sisters, a ministry to women 40-65 (

Frequent guests on radio and television, Bill and Pam have appeared on HomeWord with Jim Burns, Marriage Uncensored, Truths that Transform, FamilyLife Today, Janet Parshall’s America, 100 Huntley Street, It’s a New Day, and Life Today with James Robison, just to name a few. Their Focus on the Family interviews with Dr. Dobson ranked in the top 10 for the year 2007. Pam and Bill also pen a monthly column on relationships that runs in several newspapers in the US and Canada, and their writing has appeared in numerous magazines. They are also marriage columnists for Bill and Pam have been happily married since 1979 and are parents to three children, a daughter-in-law, and two granddaughters. The Farrels live in San Diego, California. To learn more visit